I think there is a fundamental concept of free will that people don’t realise. You are not a victim of circumstance, you are what you make of it. Really. 

Bad decisions did make you, you make bad decisions.  So stop. I am making the right decision to remove the bad things from my life and hang onto the good things, and to find new good things.

How do you know if something is bad? Or more importantly – how do you know when something that was once good, isn’t anymore?  This is a tricky question, that needs to be answered by “feel” or “gut” or whatever you call it. The right decision is sometimes the hard one, but that makes it all that more important to make.

Standing at midnight in the garden of good and evil it can sometimes be hard to tell the good from the evil. I made my choice. Good in, Bad out. The end.